The tough loving manager


I had come across this a couple of months ago when I was updating my design on performance conversations for a group of project managers.

And then I remembered this again as I was speaking to a friend and well wisher yesterday who was speaking about the tough love he had to practice with some of his team members to pull them out of their comfort zone and help them realise their true potential.

And because I had spoken with some of them in the past, I knew how proud they were of themselves as of today and how grateful there were to this manager.

My NCC drill instructor and Ms. Agnes Mannah - my former regional vice president in the financial services company I was with in London back in 2006 were also the same.


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