The relevance of irrelevance

We all have a need to be needed even as it takes different forms, nuances, meaning and extent.

I can surely say that about myself. It brings out the best in me. It answers our need for relevance, meaning and purpose.

That’s fine and understandable.

But then there’s a place and relevance for irrelevance as well in our lives.

Here’s a nice article shared with me by a recently made friend who otherwise chooses to remain under the radar.

Thanks a lot for this Bharat Raj.




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